This is the third blog entry in a series on interfaith perspectives during Lent.
Guest blogger Cassie Meyer completed her Master’s Degree at the University of Chicago Divinity School where her work focused on social justice movements in American Christianity. She has co-taught multiple courses with Dr. Eboo Patel on interfaith leadership and interfaith action at Chicago Theological Seminary and McCormick Theological Seminary, where she is adjunct faculty. (See full bio)
“Five times a day. Five times a day?” The question came out as a gasp. “How?”
Ahmed shrugged and conceded: “I’m not great at it. It’s harder to do in America. I think I’ll probably try harder when I’m older. Still, it’s a part of what we’re supposed to do as Muslims.”
I’d been a Christian for about two years when I met Ahmed, a true, flesh and blood Muslim, mysteriously transported from Bangladesh to my small Midwestern liberal arts college. Much of my new life of faith had been spent learning as much as I possibly could about the tradition I had not grown up with – reading the texts, learning the histories, discovering the patterns of community. There are some things you can learn by reading books: Who was the Apostle Paul? What exactly was going on with the Church in Corinth? What could we make of the messiness of the psalms? And then there are the other parts of a life of faith that you can read book after book about, and still, really, have no idea what you’re doing.
A practice of daily prayer had been this for me. Prayer seemed like something everyone else had figured out, something that when I tried to figure out, I spent a lot of time staring blankly into space, or with my thoughts meandering toward what I might eat for lunch that day, or…asleep.
So the thought of praying five times a day – and that that could be a central part of how you understood and enacted your faith – absolutely terrified me. Terrified me because it inspired me. And what on earth did it mean for a conservative evangelical American Christian to be inspired by a (somewhat) devout Bangladeshi Muslim?
I asked the priest at the Episcopal church that I’d been going to if he knew of anything similar to this practice in the Christian tradition. He laughed gently and pulled a battered red book from the pew pocket in front of us. “You should explore this, Cassie,” he said, flipping through the pages and cracking the spine open to “Morning Prayer.” He pointed out the other prayers to me: the noon prayer, a simple midday breath, and the compline prayer, which contains some of the words that have become dearest to my faith (“Guide us waking, and guard us sleeping; that awake we may watch with Christ, and asleep we may rest in peace”). Father Patrick explained that these scripture-punctuated daily prayers in the Episcopal prayer book, The Book of Common Prayer, were based on the practices of prayer that medieval monks had practiced in their monasteries, and before that, taken from the ancient language and rituals of the early church.
It was a completely different way of praying than anything I’d learned so far; I’d been taught that prayer should be spontaneous, Spirit-driven, unhindered by pages and text. It should be that, certainly, sometimes. Yet there was something comforting about letting the written rhythms lead me, and that though praying alone I was also somehow praying within the resonance of many other Christian voices before and behind me. I thought of Ahmed, the longing I felt when he described his daily prayers, that Muslims around the world said the same words in the same ways across time zones and country lines. Maybe he had helped me find my way home.
This Lent, my practice has been to return to The Book of Common Prayer, return to a daily practice of liturgy and guided prayer in words that Christians have been praying, in varying incarnations, for centuries. Instead of rolling out of bed five minutes before I need to rush to work, I wake up early enough to sip a cup of coffee, and whisper into the stillness of my kitchen the words of the morning prayer rite. It’s fitting that I’ve returned to this practice while observing Lent with a group of Muslim, Christian and Jewish colleagues from the Interfaith Youth Core, where as I did with Ahmed, I learn to delve deeper within my own tradition as I watch them explore theirs.
I want to be clear: I believe that something fundamentally different is being done when Ahmed and I pray; that something fundamentally different is enacted when I fast and when my Jewish colleague Sam fasts. We do a disservice to the richness of our traditions and the depths of our convictions if we pretend otherwise, and we falsify the truths on which our faiths rest if we pretend that real differences and disagreements don’t exist. And yet my prayer practice is that – a practice, a discipline – because I watched the ways a Muslim practiced his faith, and began to ask new questions about what it means to follow the One who’s path of death and resurrection I seek in the Lenten season.
I’m not the first Christian to make this discovery: it’s rumored that the practice of daily prayer in Saint Francis of Assisi’s Rule was drawn from the friar’s own peaceful interaction with Muslims during the Crusades. Francis didn’t become any less Christian when he saw someone else’s devotion and sought to translate it into what he knew as truth.
So there are the truths that we know and the truths that we act; at the end of the day, Jesus was still my savior, and he was still Ahmed’s prophet. At the end of the day, my prayers still sound very different from Ahmed’s. But if I have any sort of prayerful discipline, if I have any sort of prayerful practice, it’s at least in part due to the strange discovery that I could desire to know my own faith more deeply from watching someone else practice his. And thereby begin to find my way home.